After reading through this thread and the other PayPal thread, it seems that simply ignoring posts asking for inflated PP fees, listings asking for the use of f&f instead of g&s for sometimes a decently lower price, or the whole "NET to me" BS isn't solving anything. Why would you buy from someone that can't do basic math, asks for more than the actual surcharge offered by a payment service, or even violates that services ToS asking you to pay for goods and/or services without protection from fraud/loss/theft? It's asinine.
The simple solution in my eyes it to just start reporting people to PayPal. The harder solution is for the mods to get involved and no longer allow Friends & Family, or "NET to me" to be allowed in a listing. NONE of the other forums I'm on tolerate this crap, and none of them should. All it does is bring up problems when something does happen to a sale. I've been B/S/T'ing on forums of many different hobbies for almost 15 years (oldest I'm still active on join is 11/03...made myself feel old, ugh.) and this kind of behavior usually comes with high consequences, usually the removal of ones access to the selling forum sections. If peoples accounts start getting de-listed from PayPal, or their accounts on the forum start being limited, maybe then folks will start paying attention.
These changes WILL cause an uproar, mainly in the folks that rely on the loopholes listed in these threads and posts that are frowned upon by apparently so many on this very forum. As I've seen in the past (and it always happens...) they will threaten to go elsewhere, but this is the largest knife forum I've come across so far, are they really willing to risk losing the exposure? If such a minor change makes them leave so easily, how loyal were they really to this forum? To the community. A threat that I'm sure will be made is the loss of forums subscriptions. See previous statements. And then realize that more people will buy on here knowing they aren't being over charged, scammed, or just paying for someones laziness.
I'm new here. My opinion automatically doesn't carry weight and I get that. Change doesn't happen overnight, especially with something that's been allowed to continue for so long. However the change has to start somewhere. There has to be an actual cause to produce an effect. Ignoring it will not make it go away. Whether the mods change to rules to no longer allow using Friends & Family for transactions and make it so sellers HAVE to include fees in their asking prices, or folks start reporting the sellers who are taking advantage of a payment method meant for something else in order to gain more profit/do less work/remove ALL BUYER PROTECTION FROM THE TRANSACTION, it has to start somewhere.