Well, I've been in my place 5 years now. I was just going over some pictures of the changes, and thought I'd share a couple with you guys. It shows (at least to me) a little sweat and patience and stuff will pay off.
Here's a shot from when I bought he place. This is the northwest corner of the back yard (which is about 14000 sq ft.).
The trees on the left were cherries which had never been trimmed and were 20' + tall. They made a mess, and most of that fell in the pool. The pool was too small to swim in, and pretty expensive to maintain, so it lasted a year and then had to go. The gravel ran the entire south property line as a driveway and pad for the parking of the previous owners boat and RV. The shed was on a wood platform that was rotted away, and behind it was the old wood pile. The wood was so punky it almost fell apart.
Clearing the trees, shed, and other stuff took the better part of a year. Then I had to start replacing the fence as it was so rotted it fell over in a storm. This corner of the yard got raised up a little over 2' with a retaining wall as I put in the fence. The space where the pool was got a retaining wall and a gravel bed, using gravel from the removal of the pad. Another shed on the south side got moved and the driveway got shortened by about 30'. That was most of 2014 and 2015.
2016 saw the completion of the fire circle where the pool had been and the addition of 25 yards of fill and topsoil to level out the apace. Some of the plants started going in as I tried to plan on what I wanted it to look like. The major emphasis being on concealing the fence line, using mostly native plants, and making it fairly low maintenance while attracting bees and birds.
Today it's mostly showing what plants are going to survive and fill in, and what didn't. I figure about 1/3 of the stuff I've planted didn't work. Some got too much water, some not enough, and some I cannot figure out why they didn't take. I have plans for the rest of the yard, some of which is pretty much done, and some a long way off. But I have my space, it keeps me busy, and I can sit outside in my own little park and enjoy thinking it's better than it used to be.
So if you ever get to thinking things aren't going fast enough, take a look back at the changes you've wrought. I think you'll be pleasantly surprised.