Assuming you don't want Spyderco to fix it, don't try to bend the spring or modify the spring slot. Instead, thin the spring where it bends, not where it goes in the slot. The spring force varies with the third power of the flat spring thickness. So if you want half the force, thin it to 80% of original. If you want 3/4 the force, thin it to 90% of original. For example, if the spring is 0.040" thick (not wide!) take off 0.004" for 10%. You can do this with a Dremel and calipers. The spring is too hard to thin with a file or stone. Grind slowly, if it discolors you've overheated it and damaged the heat treatment. Thin it uniformly except where it goes in the slot. No need to be super accurate.
Spyderco might not want to make the spring force low like this. It will be out of their specs.