Hopefully this will clear some things up:
BACK LOCK
All Extrema Ratio folders use a "back-lock", a standard and accepted locking mechanism also known as a "lockback". This is what is used in the classic Buck 110. The steel back-piece mates with a catch in the blade, essentially locking it there until you depress the back-piece, lifting it up so the blade can be moved.
CROSS BOLT
The ER models with a Cross-Bolt system work identically to the back-lock. The only difference is that a small steel pin has been inserted into the back piece. When the pin is moved from one side of the knife to the other (like a gun safety), it effectively stops the back-piece from being depressed, ensuring that there is no chance of accidental closure. The pin also keeps the knife from being accidentally opened, due to the fact that opening any lock back knife will (passively) cause the back-piece to depress itself slightly.
To sum it up: The back-lock is just like any classic lock-back pocketknife. Press the back down to unlock. The cross-bolt (when engaged) prevents you from pressing the back down to unlock it.