Get a good drill chuck if it doesn't have one. Don't try to mill with it though, it'll just want to keep falling off.
A DRO, while not entirely necessary, really does speed things up and really helps with accuracy. Even one of the cheaper setups from iGaging would be a game changer.
Edge finders are a necessity in my opinion. There are things like coax indicators, center finders and wobblers and such, but you can get by pretty well with just a traditional .2" edge finder.
A good assortment of endmills is nice. I'd get at least 1 assorted set from 1/8" to 3/4" or so, then get a handful of the more common smaller sizes that you'll use for guards and what not.
Center drills are a good idea, as is a good countersink or two.
If you plan on doing a lot of tapping, a tap follower is nice to have.
Definitely get a decent vice and a parallels set. Some angle blocks and/or a sine bar (along with a gage block set) can be useful.
Fly cutters are nice to have if you need them, but I don't know that it'd be first on my list. A lot of your tooling will be stuff you buy when you learn that you need it, and it may not be specifically for a mill. Stuff like surface plates, calipers and micrometers, transfer punches, v-block sets, etc...