Yes, Satori, there is that- a big man used to resistance who will not yield. But he can be taught to relax and move with the recoil. REcoil fascinates me as well.
Shooting is mind over matter. I remember well the deep purple bruises I recieved from sighting in my Marlin lever with handloads one summer....
I'm afraid I'm less than I was. Since the beating I recieved two years ago, I have a flinch. My eye, which was ruptured by a chair, seems to have a mind of it's own. I even flinch at a thrown ball. I'm looking forward to relearning shooting.
There have been many times in my life I've had to break a flinch. People make too big a deal of this. There are some in the industry who suggest once you aquire a flinch the World is over- you're doomed never to shoot again.
Actually, placing blanks or inert cartridges between live rounds in a firearm has always helped me.
Shooting has taught me so much. What a wonderful teacher. What great mental achievement.
munk