I've never had trouble with carbon steel actually rusting. They do stain, especially if used on food, but that's not a big deal and adds character.
The first carbon steel knife I bought was a Mora No. 1, which is now my workshop utility knife. My workshop is my patio. It sits outside in a leather sheath I made, all year long. It is protected from rain but not the humidity, and I have had only a couple tiny spots of rust, and I do not oil it. The spots go away if I use the strop on the flat of the blade. I did mirror polish this blade (or very close to it) which does help prevent rust. My other carbon steel blades (1095, O1, plus whatever steel Opinel uses) stay inside, in their leather sheaths. They still look brand new, except for the ones I use in the kitchen. I don't oil them, but the kitchen ones occasionally get some crisco rubbed on them (I already use the crisco to keep the seasoning on my cast iron skillet).
In short, I'm saying that carbon steel knives are not some kind of maintenance nightmare. It's nothing to worry about. Don't leave them lying in the yard overnight, don't leave them in a wet sheath (dry sheaths are ok in my experience), don't leave it covered with wet debris from cutting. If you want to oil it, even better.
Also, as for sharpening, I agree with ObsessedwithEdges that sandpaper is your best value. I would only add to get a leather strop and some compound. It is pretty cheap and really works well to get that last little bit of sharpness. Plus, you can do most of your maintenance with it instead of dragging out the sandpaper.