Brownshoe and Knifehoarder,
You are both correct, and I was wrong. To be clear - I am the last guy who isn't willing to "step up" and talk to someone I feel wronged me. However, I'm probably too quick to assume the worst when dealing on the internet, because it's so impersonal and there is no one who has to stand and answer to my face if they do me wrong, so I assumed (wrongly) that I was being blown off.
So, I'm "stepping up" to say that I was wrong in my review, and all mis-communication between Tactical Wholesalers and myself is MY FAULT, not theirs. I believed they hadn't gotten back to me because I didn't get an email response. They had responded, almost immediately in fact, via a message board on their website. Because I didn't get an email response, I wrongly assumed that there was no response at all. I went back and checked my email, found a link to their message board, and went to that to discover that they had sent me a response. I contacted them again to apologize for my mistake, and assured them I would update or delete my review, and additionally post positive reviews acknowledging their quick responsiveness - which is why I'm here.
I'm a business owner myself, and I've been on the wrong side of people's incorrect, assumptive reviews, and I understand how damaging it is. Knifehoarder....though i really dislike the tone and being talked down to.... you're correct that I should have gone back and looked for a phone number and verified my assumptions before responding in the way that I did.
I will MORE than make up for my incorrect online review. I don't take these things lightly, and will make sure that I drive more business to them than I could have possibly cost them.