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My girlfriend of 8 years has decided I need to move out for a few weeks so she can decide what she wants out of life and our relationship. We arent going to date other people or anything and after the first week we'll hang out and see how things are.
We've been to a couple counseling sessions and all but she really seems to not be comfortable around me in a romantic way. We still get along just fine and she likes to talk and do activities but just doesn't feel the love anymore. She says it's more like we're friends.
I know she isn't cheating because I know her and she wouldn't, plus we've both had that done to us in the past and vowed to never do it to another person.
So my question is: do I just sit by and wait or do I start looking around?
I love her and really want her to stay but fear that she's going to want to leave and i'll get stuck alone and devistated. SInce I have no control over her feelings and everything I've tried to make her happy is just not making it better...
I just dont know what to do.
I posted this here and not in whine and cheese so hopefully I'd get thoughtful and or helpful advice.
Thanks everyone.
N2
We've been to a couple counseling sessions and all but she really seems to not be comfortable around me in a romantic way. We still get along just fine and she likes to talk and do activities but just doesn't feel the love anymore. She says it's more like we're friends.
I know she isn't cheating because I know her and she wouldn't, plus we've both had that done to us in the past and vowed to never do it to another person.
So my question is: do I just sit by and wait or do I start looking around?
I love her and really want her to stay but fear that she's going to want to leave and i'll get stuck alone and devistated. SInce I have no control over her feelings and everything I've tried to make her happy is just not making it better...
I just dont know what to do.
I posted this here and not in whine and cheese so hopefully I'd get thoughtful and or helpful advice.
Thanks everyone.
N2