Read and try to digest as much as you can. I am pretty sure you will not find a truly complete set of parts listed anywhere.
I think there are probably several reasons for this.
First is that almost everyone who builds their own does so to save money. Their build will reflect the materials and facilities they have available. Some will have welders, others will bend up a sheetmetal casing, some will rivet and some will use nuts and bolts. Many will buy the elements, a few will wind their own.
Second is that controller technology, like most electronics, moves quickly. A parts list from 3 or 4 years ago may well be obsolete. If not, it's very likely that a newer controller will be available with improved functionality and at lower cost.
Third is that the electrical side of things can differ considerably between countries. An example would be the US mains system having 2 "hot" wires on 220V, versus the single "hot" on European 230V mains. Most US builds seem to use 2 SSRs where European builds only need one. Here in the UK, domestic sockets are designed for 13A and the plugs are fused, whereas most of Continental Europe seems to use nominal 20A domestic plugs and sockets. I have an effective power limit of around 3000 Watts as a result, but just over the channel the limit is around 4500 Watts.
Sizing and elements can make a big difference, as can the required operating temperature and frequency of use. For a hobby maker, 16AWG (1.29mm) elements are a reasonable choice, particularly if mainly working with Carbon Steels. However, based on my admittedly limited experience, element life seems shorter than would be desirable for a professional working with Stainless steels and needing to put food on the table. A couple of the ovens I've built have been used by pro makers and failed within a few months. I have since switched to using 1.6mm elements, though still in Kanthal A1. The thicker wire has lower resistance per foot/metre and therefore a greater length is needed for a given output. I've needed to make some design changes to accommodate this.
Many homebuilt ovens have been based on Andy Gascoigne's pdf writeup originally posted on British Blades, including my first 2 or 3. I think it is a very good starting point, but would strongly recommend bringing twisted element tails outside the oven, rather than using the stainless allthread through the wall.
I feel anyone building an HT oven needs to have a pretty good understanding of both the process and the equipment. I'd actually be quite worried by a set of instructions that was written to allow someone to build one without that understanding.
All the ovens I have built are currently with folk who'll actually use them so I cannot just look at one and write a checklist. Off the top of my head though, this is a list of the things that I can remember, with some of the factors that will affect the choice in brackets.
HT Oven Parts List
Control Box:
Enclosure
PID Controller (Ramp/Soak preferred)
SSR(s) and HeatSink(s) or Contactor(s) (to suit PID controller output, element current and local/chosen power supply system)
Mains cable
Plug(s) (to suit local power supply system)
Possibly RCD/GFCI to suit local power supply system
Equipment wire for internal wiring.
Terminal strip, labels, crimp connectors, cable ties, etc.
Switches and/or lamps/indicators (to suit control design)
Oven:
Frame/casing (to suit builders available equipment/materials)
IFBs (or other appropriate insulating refractory materials)
Elements (to suit oven dimensions, materials of construction, desired working temperature range and power supply)
Element retainers (to suit elements and chosen retention system)
Element connectors (to suit termination method chosen)
Power cable from SSR(s) to elements (to suit the termination method chosen; may or may not need a high-temperature cable)
Door hinges.
Door catch (this needs to work with one hand if treating more than one blade at a time)
Thermocouple (type to suit controller, remaining details to suit the detailed design of the HT oven)
Compensating or extension cable for thermocouple (may or may not be needed, depending on detail design)
Door switch (to suit current and Voltage being switched)
Door switch cable if needed.
Levelling feet or similar.
If using a separate standalone control enclosure:
Plug(s)/socket(s) for power connection(s)
Plug/socket for doorswitch
Plug/socket for thermocouple