The heat of a dishwasher is not going to detemper most blade steel. To affect the temper, you have to heat the blade above the final heat treatment temperature. Even the lowest final temperature commonly used today is about 350F. Boiling water is nominally 212F. So, you've got about 150F margin there.
To superheat water, to get it above boiling temperature (nominally 212F) and yet remain liquid, requires rather careful conditions. It's not going to happen inside your dishwasher. It can happen, though, in a common household microwave oven when water is heated in a glass cup. Superheated water is explosive, so you need to be very careful about that.
The problem with knives in dishwashers is not the temperature nor the water. It's the detergent. Dishwasher detergents are very harsh and corrosive. Most contain a lot of chlorine.
You should not, for example, put china with gold or silver or platinum patterns on it (this is very often on the rim of the plates and cups on some china patterns), or glasses with gold plated rims or decorations in the dishwasher because the detergent will wash the metal off (often doing noticable damage in just one wash). The detergent is actually dissolving the metal and washing it off!
Don't wash leaded crystal in a dishwasher either. The detergent washes the lead out of the surface of the glass making it look cloudy and dull.
The very edge of a knife is very thin. Just as that harsh detergent can wash the lead out of glass and wash a thin layer of gold or silver off of a china plate or cup, it can actually wash away the very edge of a knife. It can actually dissolve the steel and wash it right down the drain. And it is washing away that very edge of the steel that dulls the knife.