Speaking only of handmade/custom stuff... (production blades are typically run soft, for one reason and one reason only: cost. Ease of sharpening and toughness increases are a "bonus", and they're used to great effect for marketing purposes).
It's more about the market, than it is about the maker. Some of these traditions get so ingrained in peoples' minds over the decades that most folks don't really even understand why they became the norm in the first place (again, mostly cost). But whatever... the fact is, blades at 58-60Rc sell better (or at least, to a wider audience) than the same alloys at higher hardnesses.
The influence of Japanese kitchen cutlery and US makers like Wilson is helping dispel some of the old "standards".
Like you, I prefer thinner, more acute edges than most, even in knives that I do use hard, and even abuse. Let's face it, blade design really got about as advanced as it's ever going to get a long time ago, so the fun part is chasing thinner geometries and more durable HT's to eke out that last extra bit of performance.
But we're far from the average buyer, even of custom/handmade knives. A certain percentage of knife buyers are just plain unfamiliar with, and therefore leery of anything they think might be difficult to sharpen or could chip in use. And of course, if one goof manages to break a knife, his pics and angry review will be all over the planet in a matter of days, and suddenly
"all XYZ steel at ABC hardness is junk!"
That's not as prevalent today as it was 10 years ago, much less 40 years ago, but they still seem to be in the majority.
I agree with you that nearly any knife in "carbon" steel would benefit from being tempered at 60Rc or in many cases, higher. What's really funny is when people pay extra for high-alloy steels in a search for greater edge retention, then want them run at 58Rc, then can't figure out how the matrix wears away just as fast as a plain "carbon" steel blade does... suddenly they're complaining about
"carbide tear-out" and
"all stainless steel is junk!"
And the whole thermal cycling of 52100 I think is just forgers making their knives sound better. When someone says using bigger stock and more reduction like the steel molecules are getting smashed closer together and the steel is getting denser is laughable. Not to go off topic but 52100 comes perfect from the mill.
You're right about that, too. Once it's squeezed down to barstock and leaves the mill,
any steel is as
"forged to density" as it's ever going to get... as makers, our biggest concern is to not screw it up too much
The main purpose of thermal cycling is to help bring grain size back under control after you've (possibly) blown it up at forging/welding heats and whatnot. Happily, again, "old wives' tales" like edge-packing and "cryo treating" in your kitchen freezer are slowly going away.