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Smoke & Prayers needed & requested. Sorry in advance for any rambling as this is a difficult story to tell.
Well the last time I was here with an update on Stella I had to tell all of you that she had lied too me about her cancer among other things. Since then Stella has told me several more lies mostly about her and the kid's health and how bad her husband had turned lately.
Stella told me that she was taking care of herself when she wasn't.:grumpy:
In telling me how badly her husband D had turned on her it was Stella that had turned on him and basically ran him off, telling him too leave.
Evidently Stella went off the deep end and I doubt that she knew truth from all the lies.
Stella had got online and met a fellow in another state and within three or four emails she told him how much she loved him.
Stella denied all of this too me when I had the copies of her emails right in front of me. :grumpy:
To help shorten the story basically Stella invited this guy to move to Florida and move in with her, which he did.
This all happened in a very short time.
J the middle child had tried to commit suicide and failed thanks to D and when Stella ran Dallas off he took J with him and he has been fine every since.
Jessica is starting public school again real soon.
And M, the oldest boy may be going in the military very soon, the best thing that could happen to him!
I haven't mentioned here lately what Stella was telling me because I didn't know what was true or not but unfortunately it mostly was the truth.
Stella told me that she had a brain tumor, remains to be seen, but her arteries going to her brain was badly blocked and she went in for surgery about three weeks ago, she did have a stroke earlier this year.
Instead of giving someone responsible and who knew her enough to know her mind on certain things she gave her power of attorney too this character who had moved in with her and an Internet buddy she has never met.
D just called me a while ago with the latest news. Stella has been paralyzed on her right side since the surgery and has been in rehab ever since. She can say, Yes, No, What, and Ouch and that's the extent of her vocabulary. D said that her insurance was going to run out in about another three weeks and then she will have to go into a nursing home and the state will have to take care of her, probably on Social Security Disability.
I guess when you think something is bad wrong with you long enough that it's sort of like praying for it and you have to be careful what you pray for or you just might get it. Stella finally does have something seriously wrong with her.
Well the last time I was here with an update on Stella I had to tell all of you that she had lied too me about her cancer among other things. Since then Stella has told me several more lies mostly about her and the kid's health and how bad her husband had turned lately.
Stella told me that she was taking care of herself when she wasn't.:grumpy:
In telling me how badly her husband D had turned on her it was Stella that had turned on him and basically ran him off, telling him too leave.
Evidently Stella went off the deep end and I doubt that she knew truth from all the lies.
Stella had got online and met a fellow in another state and within three or four emails she told him how much she loved him.
Stella denied all of this too me when I had the copies of her emails right in front of me. :grumpy:
To help shorten the story basically Stella invited this guy to move to Florida and move in with her, which he did.
This all happened in a very short time.
J the middle child had tried to commit suicide and failed thanks to D and when Stella ran Dallas off he took J with him and he has been fine every since.
Jessica is starting public school again real soon.
And M, the oldest boy may be going in the military very soon, the best thing that could happen to him!
I haven't mentioned here lately what Stella was telling me because I didn't know what was true or not but unfortunately it mostly was the truth.
Stella told me that she had a brain tumor, remains to be seen, but her arteries going to her brain was badly blocked and she went in for surgery about three weeks ago, she did have a stroke earlier this year.
Instead of giving someone responsible and who knew her enough to know her mind on certain things she gave her power of attorney too this character who had moved in with her and an Internet buddy she has never met.
D just called me a while ago with the latest news. Stella has been paralyzed on her right side since the surgery and has been in rehab ever since. She can say, Yes, No, What, and Ouch and that's the extent of her vocabulary. D said that her insurance was going to run out in about another three weeks and then she will have to go into a nursing home and the state will have to take care of her, probably on Social Security Disability.
I guess when you think something is bad wrong with you long enough that it's sort of like praying for it and you have to be careful what you pray for or you just might get it. Stella finally does have something seriously wrong with her.