I think the "murse" stigma isn't as great as it used to be. We're becoming a unisex society. The western world is becoming unisex.
I think man-bags are common in Europe because of the regular use of public transportation, bike use, and more walking in urban areas. Public transportation forces you to carry more stuff that you feel you might need on a day to day basis. Business people frequently carried brief cases of one kind or other.
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use of a bag, the back pack is the better solution. Using a backpack as a sling pack is uncomfortable to me. Oh, but it is manly.... It all depends on just what you need to carry in one of these bags in terms of choosing an appropriate size and carry method. I don't need to pack rain gear, extra clothing, stuff for kids or others, or even a lunch; it is just for my gadget needs in an urban environment and it is day to day stuff.
The urban bag application was lacking for me. Appearances matter to me, but appearances do not totally control my choices. I don't own a motorcycle or ride one. I don't want to wear a backpack all the time. I'm not a school kid. So, we all have different needs..... It all depends on what we feel we need to carry and then you choose the carry method. Some like fanny packs, belt packs and so forth. Some like sling bags or shoulder bags. Some like back packs. Ultimately, you need to keep an open mind on different approaches addressing how to carry stuff day to day that you feel you need or for convenience whether you're a male or female.
Once a person (male) accepts the regular use of a bag as a need, then I could see having "small, medium and large" options available for immediate use based on the present need. Right now, I am still in the trying out stage but leaning heavily toward a fairly regular carry of a shoulder/sling bag. We'll see if I can evolve to accepting the use as routine?
I view the little Duluth bag as sort of a mini-brief case with a shoulder strap. The old US Army map case was a good analogy at the beginning of this thread relative to the Duluth bag I chose.
As a kid, I used one of those map cases as a book bag going to school. They were cheap at the time and I couldn't afford much. Plus I thought using army stuff was cool. We didn't lug around back packs like kids do today.