Do not faff about with homebrew "refractory" you have seen on Youtube.
Be sceptical. If someone shows a forge they have built being used to forge its 30th knife, then by all means sit up and take notice.
If you see a freshly built forge that appears to get hot enough, but has no follow-up showing subsequent uses, ask yourself why this might be?
You can buy Refractory Ceramic Fiber blanket in small quantities online and it is reasonably cheap and easy to ship. It insulates well and has little thermal mass. A double layer of blanket in a coffee can forge will make a much better forge than any homebrewed lining material.
The RCF blanket tends to shed fibers when you poke it with your workpiece and these are generally considered a health hazard. You can use the refractory cement you already have to immobilize the fibres and make the surface more durable by applying a wash of the cement diluted with water so that it soaks in well. When I did it, I found that I got a reasonably rigid layer about 3/8" to 1/2" thick. Once it is dry, you can apply a second coat with minimal added water to give a 1/8" shell on top.
If the cement has stood for a long time in the tub, there will be a fairly thick goopy liquid on the top. I try to use as much of this in the wash as I can: it seems to do the rigidizing thing best that way.