You are over sharpening. The burr is getting too big. Slowly approach the apex and keep the burr small.
This ^^
Have you tried many light alternating strokes on a ceramic rod?
I have spent a lot of time with the finest of the Spyderco triangle ceramic rods and I find the edge will hold onto the bur on cheep steel even when going edge leading only where as the same rod on decent alloys are much improved by the same rod and never even form a bur of any significance and they loose it quick.
I sharpen these very regularly and have decent success ESPECIALLY with the VG10.
It's vaguely possible that you have "weak steel" at the very edge. A controversial person in the sharpening community recommends that you "destress" the edge of a blade each time you sharpen it, by removing this weak steel.
That would be Cliff Stamp.
I've learned some stuff from him and agree on a number of things.
However I never destress edges. I have great results with edge retention as long as the steel is decent (M4, M390, HAP-40, extra hard White Paper Steel etc).
That said I can see there is something to removing the fatigured, weak steel but practically speaking . . . science says . . . the steel will be harder (work hardened) not softer though perhaps fractured.
It is soft but ductile steel that forms a bur not overly hard brittle steel which is what work hardened steel will be (for the most part banning H1 etc). H1 is improved by work hardening it.
[fatigured I created a new word and like it so I left it in]
As far as dragging the edge into a hunk of wood to literally TEAR the bur off . . .

I know some , one, super pro, highly trained, highly respected knife makers have recommended this.

all I can say is MADNESS

There are wilder skies than these to remove a bur.
I suppose if one wants a jagged assed old saw like knife edge then go for it . . .
even then . . . nah dude, nah.
Nothing seems to work. I have also tried about everything else that I can think of as well.
Any suggestions would be greatly appreciated!
I didn't see a sharpening jig listed there; specifically The Edge Pro Apex.
It helps me sharpen at the same angle on both sides and yet not form much of a bur as I sneak up on the very apex ( just enough to know I am getting down to the actual cutting edge).
For the excellent alloys I listed above the edge deburs as I progress through three, four or five stones. I do nothing to encourage this other than sharpen at the same angle for all the stones and take a few edge leading strokes on the final pass of each stone followed by a couple of edge trailing strokes very lightly alternating side to side.
For the sucky bur preserving alloys (most under hardened stainless alloys) I steepen the angle of the stone on the Edge Pro about a degree or even less and take some edge leading strokes lightly followed by more strokes but edge trailing.
This usually does the trick.
If this doesn't do the trick toss the knife in the trash (I'm sort of kidding . . . sort of).
or
delve into the dark arts
get a three legged chicken and sacrifice it in a ring of salt on a full moon
then break out the strops.
seeing as three legged chickens are getting more and more scarce due to all the soft crap knives out there.
I NEVER go there. Life is too short.