For profiling and most bevels I use a 10" wheel. I use an 8" also for certain things, like hollow grinding tangs preparatory to tapering them and false edge bevels, and the bevels of smaller knives, but if I had to choose between the two sizes, I'd go with 10".
Eventually you'll find a use for most sizes of contact wheel. Profiling on a flat platen is for the birds and I wouldn't do it if paid triple. It's way too noisy, slow, and like you say, wears the platen fast. There's no need for it.
If you're looking for a method of setting the 10" wheel up for profiling get the book "How To Make Knives" by Barney and Loveless. It tells you how in the Loveless section.
Or you can just keep adjusting the work rest and slowly turning the wheel with belt on against your work(do this by hand) until the scratch pattern is in the center of the bar. It's doesn't take long.