Finally made it home from OK City. Nothing unpleasant happened but I wouldn't care if I never visited again, and wild horses couldn't drag me to live there.
I didn't get to try every restaurant suggested, but they were sincerely appreciated. Food in OKC is actually pretty good. Bad Brad's BBQ, Charleston's, a Chinese buffet in Yukon, Primo's, Double D Saloon...
But
Holy Cow there is
nothing to do there! Nearest public land is hundreds of miles away. Visited one of the lakes, good for five minutes of wave watching. Drove 35 miles north to visit the Chisholm Trail Museum (one of the few scenic items listed on the road map) - it was closed. One day I didn't have a vehicle so was stuck in a motel at I40 and Mustang Ranch - miserable.
Just before dark on the last night, I did get lucky (and lost) and stumble upon a place for a very short walk, the Stinchcomb Wildlife Refuge. The trail consisted of a flat bulldozed road that went a mile or two then dead ended. A couple of snakes, squirrels, and lots of deer tracks. Looked like a creek with nice beaches alongside the trail in some places but there was no way to get through the poison ivy to the water or sand. I still caught poison ivy... but had a nice hour-long walk anyway.
I was impressed by the state capitol building. Very classy. It was closed and empty at the time, but I had a nice browse around the grounds. Why does the Governor needs 34 parking spaces?
Summarizing OK City: for those planning a potential trip
Food - good
Weather - poor to fair
Sprawling yuppie subdivision rating - miserable
People - OK
Outdoor opportunities - almost none, with virtually no public land
Traffic - not bad
Thanks again!