Trade her for a TW-90.
If you can't, then some type of counseling is in order. You may not want to hear it, but there is a possibility that your core values and priorities in life are no longer compatible. That type of marriage relationship will either eventually crash or reach a dysfunctional false equilibrium.
Couples counseling is a good option, but if she is resistant, you can also go to solo counseling to learn strategies to deal with her as well as other things to help yourself.
Edited to add: You may still love her and she may still love you, but in some cases, individuals can diverge so far apart in what they value and care about in life that love isn't enough to bridge that gap. I hope that isn't true for y'all, but you probably can use some professional help in the form of counseling to figure things out. Best to you.
If you can't, then some type of counseling is in order. You may not want to hear it, but there is a possibility that your core values and priorities in life are no longer compatible. That type of marriage relationship will either eventually crash or reach a dysfunctional false equilibrium.
Couples counseling is a good option, but if she is resistant, you can also go to solo counseling to learn strategies to deal with her as well as other things to help yourself.
Edited to add: You may still love her and she may still love you, but in some cases, individuals can diverge so far apart in what they value and care about in life that love isn't enough to bridge that gap. I hope that isn't true for y'all, but you probably can use some professional help in the form of counseling to figure things out. Best to you.