I've always thought that.
I much prefer living in fly-over America, where we take care of our own problems without calling 911.
I've lived both.
I too have tried both and will stay in civilization.
We moved to Trinidad Colorado in the mid 70's, for what we thought was a more balanced life. NO!
The schools outright sucked compared to the schools in the D.C. area. Our kids were studying stuff in the Trinidad schools that they had already covered two years prior in the Maryland suburbs of D.C. The medical system was terrible, and often had to go to specialists in Pueblo, almost 80 miles north, because the doctors in Trinidad were not up to the job.
Shopping prices were nuts. The town merchants knew they had a semi captive audience, and most people we knew would make a weekly trip up to Pueblo for the staples of groceries. And forget getting a car repaired, or God forbid try to buy one at Triangle Chevy, the dealer in town. The car dealers in Trinidad were like the mafia. We went up the road to Pueblo to buy a minivan and saved almost 1,500 dollars.
After two years, we moved back to Maryland so the kids would get a better education to start their life off with. Never looked back. I like the city. I like the amities and museums and art galleries and schools, and medical arena. I like civilization. All three of my kids ended up with college degrees and a good life they would not have had in some little wide spot in the road.
There is a reason that 10,000 years ago, man moved out of the caves and formed the first mud walled villages between the Tigress and Euphrates rivers. People are pack animals for the most part. Creatures of the herd. Yes, there are some that can't fit in and are anti social, but they are the exception to the rule. I don't know whee this idea comes from that people are going back to the land, but it's false. Cities are growing. In just the past 8 years we've been in Georgetown Texas, the town has grown in size greatly. A lot of people are moving here from California, because of the California insane taxes and cost of living. Austin is one of the fastest growing cities in the country, with Tesla, Hitachi, Dell, Sanyo, and other huge companies moving in.
My neighbor had a stroke and his wife saw him go down and called 911, and of that "magic hour" had all of 20 minutes before he was in the ER. He ends up almost 100%, with some stiffness in his right arm and needs a cane to walk now. But if he'd been in some rural area that it would take almost all of that "magic hour" just to get to him, it would have been a lot worse. This is why urban dwellers have a longer life span that the rural folks. Quick access to medical care in emergencies. But not just emergencies. In 2018, my wife of a half a century was diagnosed with breast cancer. The doctors told us if you have to get sick, the Austin area is the area to be, Her surgeon, who was from Cedars-Sini hospital in L.A. and had moved to Austin, was amazing. He neatly reamoved the two small tumors and kept her breast, she had some chemo, some radiation, and has fine ever since. I don't think she's have has such good care in Trinidad Colorado or other small Ville in some remote place.
No, I've tried life in some small fly over place. I went back to civilization. It's what man will always do for the most part. No matter if it was some mud brick village in Mesopotamia or Athens, or Rome, or London, man gets ahead by the pooled resources of the cities. Always has been, always will be. And I've been hearing that "It's all gonna fall apart" crap ever since I was a kid, and it ain't happened yet.