@Pauli, she's still in doubt, not only about us, but everything (work, herself, the kids, etc),,, she's gonna see a therapist we both saw a while back and see if she can help her make the right decision,,, so, I'm still in limbo,,, no fun, mang,,, sorry, if I have been a bit quiet on here,,, hope everyone else is in a better place then me,,, thanks for asking, shows you care, means a lot :thumbup: