I'd like to make an observation concerning the issue of respect:
I've only been on the forums for 6 months. Within that period, I have seen several people posting their problems with several custom makers. Many times, these folks
never even approached the maker with thier grievances. (I happen to know some of these makers and took the liberty to contact them directly when I saw the posts. Some have no computer. None were aware that there was a problem.)
To me, this is
blatantly disrespectful! It is even
worse when the person posting is an established member of the custom knife community. Obviously, the issue of "agendas"
does come into play all too often, like some childish game of "King of the Hill".
I followed such a topic today in this very forum, where an unaware knifemaker was most likely bullied into joining BFC to undertake immediate "damage control" measures. I have never met this maker, but I understand he
is noted for having all those "endearing qualities" Gus has mentioned.
This is exactly how I was introduced to BFC - when an associate of mine told me I had some "issues" to address with certain forumites. Somehow, when I appeared all those problems seemed to vanish.
While I have been here, I have seen too many generous folks who believe that educating people about knives (without the price tag of hidden, self-serving agendas) is important. Yet, these same people take a lot of beatings for their gallant efforts.
I see much potential for these forums to become a better place where people can freely exchange knowlegde, ideas, and opinions in a responsible manner - and have some wholesome fun while doing it. To me, it would be a shame to abuse or neglect such a valuable resource.
That is why I made the previous statement about wishing more makers would post if they could. I agree with Gus - most of the custom makers I have had the privilege of knowing are decent, unselfish, caring people who appreciate honest opinions from other honest people - even if their own opinions differ. They give the same respect to someone they just met as they do to a friend they've known and trusted for many years - even if it doesn't mean a "potential sale."
Sorry about my ramblings. It feels good to get this off my chest.
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Tom Anderson
Hand Crafted Knives
www.andersoncustomknives.com
[This message has been edited by Tom Anderson (edited 05-17-2001).]