I use a three step method for sharpening: 1) Cut off the existing edge with 1-2 very light passes into the stone (like you are trying to slice the stone in half) 2) Shape the edge bevel freehand on a waterstone until it no longer reflects light from a directional light source. 3) Set an apex micro-bevel with a solid sintered ceramic abrasive, typically Spyderco Sharpmaker rods.
If I want a balance between push-cutting ability and slicing aggression, I'll typically use a Sigma Power Select II 1,000 grit stone to cut off the existing apex and shape the edge bevel at 7-10 dps, then set an apex micro-bevel at 15 dps with my Spyderco Sharpmaker medium rods, used with a little mineral oil, with 5-10 pps. I then make 1-2 very very light passes per side at twice the Sharpmaker angle I'm using to cut-off any burr that has formed, and then make 5 very very light passes per side at the same angle I was using for the 5-10 passes per side.
The result in only a few minutes is an apex that will push cut newsprint across the grain at 90 degrees, but still has some slicing aggression.
If I have time and I feel like playing around, I'll shape the edge-bevel on a 1k -> 3k -> 10k -> 13k progression and micro-bevel on Spyderco fine rods. That gives a freehand mirrored edge-bevel and a level of push-cutting sharpness that will effortlessly push-cut whole sheets of newsprint across the grain at 90 degrees, pass hht 3-4 on my extremely fine head hair, push cut a tomato down to the cutting board, can directly be used as a straight razor, etc.
Before anyone asks, the Spyderco sintered ceramic abrasives are much finer than there stated grit ratings or particle size rating would indicate. The fine rods, used with a light touch and mineral oil, are easily comparable to an ~8k waterstone. Furthermore, since the rods are only being used to set an apex micro-bevel with a small number of passes, the finish of the edge-bevel tends to dominate the resulting edge behaviour.