So, figured I'd update this... After much consideration I finally pulled the trigger on a Goruck gr1. I tried to hold out a bit longer with the maxpedition, but a cross state trip this weekend really put the issues that have arisen to the forefront of my mind. Especially considering we have a week long trip planned for next month with the in-laws.
I'd like to thank everyone for their time and suggestions. I truly appreciate the help.