- Joined
- Jul 9, 1999
- Messages
- 3,316
Yet another sad transition for me. My decision to change my EDC's from fixed blades of my own making back to factory folders is one I was determined not to make but it's become all too clear to me it has to be done.
With my wife by my side I only saw minimal attention drawn to my choice of cutlery carry. Only once in a while I saw a look of consternation on the face of someone. And only occasionally(read: rarely) did I see what I construed as fear on the face of someone who was obviously uncomfortable at my choice of knife.
I'm by myself now and I'm seeing far more looks of concern to outright fear on the faces of people around me while out in public. It's become abundantly clear to me that the presence of my wife with me put most people at ease about what I was carrying. Perhaps a man wearing a fixed blade knife accompanied by a woman(read: wife) seems less threatening. I don't know for sure but that seems logical.
I only know that I'm attracting attention that I'm not comfortable with at this time. I find I'm becoming downright paranoid about the prospect of having to explain to officer Friendly why I'm carrying a fixed blade that's scaring the gen. public. That never used to concern me much when I was out and about with Sue. Now, it seems, I'm in a whole new ballgame and I'm not sure I like how the deck is now stacked against me.
So, I've switched to folders earlier in the week as an experiment and I see no one giving me looks. Good grief...
Well, I guess I'm gonna go with this for awhile and see if it's actually a trend or if I'm just goin' gaga here. :barf:
Anybody else notice this? I mean, less attention drawn to what your carrying when your accompanied by your wife/girlfriend?
With my wife by my side I only saw minimal attention drawn to my choice of cutlery carry. Only once in a while I saw a look of consternation on the face of someone. And only occasionally(read: rarely) did I see what I construed as fear on the face of someone who was obviously uncomfortable at my choice of knife.
I'm by myself now and I'm seeing far more looks of concern to outright fear on the faces of people around me while out in public. It's become abundantly clear to me that the presence of my wife with me put most people at ease about what I was carrying. Perhaps a man wearing a fixed blade knife accompanied by a woman(read: wife) seems less threatening. I don't know for sure but that seems logical.
I only know that I'm attracting attention that I'm not comfortable with at this time. I find I'm becoming downright paranoid about the prospect of having to explain to officer Friendly why I'm carrying a fixed blade that's scaring the gen. public. That never used to concern me much when I was out and about with Sue. Now, it seems, I'm in a whole new ballgame and I'm not sure I like how the deck is now stacked against me.
So, I've switched to folders earlier in the week as an experiment and I see no one giving me looks. Good grief...
Well, I guess I'm gonna go with this for awhile and see if it's actually a trend or if I'm just goin' gaga here. :barf:
Anybody else notice this? I mean, less attention drawn to what your carrying when your accompanied by your wife/girlfriend?