Hey, Federico--hope you're still reading this thread...Dude, I don't really have too much to add to what's already been said,(Kuntawman's a cool dude, ain't he?
) but understand this--you're not the only Fil-Am to be in the position that you're in w/ yr. dad, and if you keep looking, you wil find the moral support of other Pinoys/Fil-Ams who have dealt w/ the same issues...heck, guess what, pare, you already have!
FYI, my folks weren't originally too keen on my exploring this stuff either...my dad was a super-cocky Manila cop when he was in his twenties, (yes, w/ a .45!
)and my mom kinda thought it was for the "low-class" (she grew up as a sheltered "Maria Clara" type)--but, point blank, dude, to study "our thing" was something that my soul truly cried out for, and, now that I'm well in the thick of it, the training has enriched my life in ways beyond the combative (which, of course, is impeccable
)--and I can't encourage you enough to just go for it--you'll learn more than you could ever dream, grow inside in ways that I can't even begin to express adequately with mere words--encounter facets of the ancestral Pinoy soul that you wouldn't be able to reach any other way. This raw, humble, royal, ferocious, sorrowful, proud, terrifying, and powerful thing that is the FMAs is OURS...our birthright, our burden, debt and burning gift to the world. It's how we kept our soul intact in the very face of the oppressor, and it's, in my eyes, the most direct link to the essence of our primal Pinoy heart that still exists on this hyper-modern and breaking-at-the-seams globe that we all live on... Hermano, I wish you luck, I bid you safety, I hope you enjoy your training, and dude, here's my e-mail address, keep in touch: berdugo9@hotmail.com. Peace, man...
bayani (Bakbakan International, North American branch)
Federico, check our website out, we've got lots of cool FMA historical/cultural stuff there, it's there for you, use it, and grow stronger inside:
www.bakbakan.com
Again, PEACE.