Hi,
...I find kitchen knives under his pillow. He's learned knife safety (boy scouts) but seems to have a hard time resisting the urge to bring them in his room...Many men tell me this is normal....
it is common practice for girls
to cuddle up soundly into bed
with stuffed toys or dolls.
some grown ups still do
and by that measure,
your son found it comforting
to have found something of a pacifier
in the form of knives. unconventional?yeah!
rest assured that some grown men
do the same; just try talking them out of it
yes, it may be strange to a whole lotta folks,
but its a reality that you must now face
and accept. as a guardian or parent,
it is only right to see
that it does not get out of hand
in regards to your concerns of this practice..
you can support his facination (as many have suggested),
by replacing that kitchen knife
with something a little more safer
(like a sheath or pocket knife)
it would present less of an exposed llve edge danger to everyone
(!especially so for anyone who sleep walks!)
perhaps being a trained boyscout may have had something to do with his conditioning.
thus i urge you to support him during this period of formative years for many kids have
ended up with drugs because they largely lack parental support and care
and more importantly do not have a close relatiionship of unspoken understanding.
a strong parental bond can resolve issues.
one must be able to see and read the signs when it come to your own childrren its playing for keeps.
it would be a sad day to loose this trust.
so it would be a positive sign for him
if you play "tooth fairy" and slip in a more functional and character building gift
(like a swiss or plier tool, along with a guide book or two) under the pillows right before bed time.
once his heart is soften, he should be all ears!
retone your concerns to him and firmly suggest that with these gifts, he now no longer requires to place dangerous objects under his head.
restore some authority by requesting that
he needs your permission before removing
your kitchen cutlery for any use.
and that it would greatly help
with the sound sleep.department for you
that all kitchen knives
stays firmly in the kitchen...
its anybody's guees
how much longer he would continue
falling asleep with countless dreams of knives