I used a diamond disk in a Dremel tool to shape it while the carbide was spinning in a drill press. The diamond disks are available cheaply from Harbor Freight. I think they come in a set of five for around five bucks.Just curious, how do you grind carbide? Isn't the only way to do this with diamonds?
The piece of carbide I used was 2" long and I cut it in half. To do that, I scored it with the diamond disk. The diamonds on the edge of one of the disks last just long enough to get a decent score line. I then put the piece in a vice, put a rag over it so the pieces wouldn't go flying around the shop and then hit it with hammer to snap it in half. I had to hit it pretty hard before it broke, but I got a relatively clean break.