Mr Boot:
Just a couple of cents from a, sort of, competitor of Fred's. (I'm a brick & mortar, not a 'net dealer so I don't have the same market he does)
Of ALL the 'net dealers to pick a fight with, you definitely made the wrong call here.
You're right about one thing, there are a LOT of E-trade dealers out there and Fred is, without a doubt, the most respected and reliable of the bunch. That isn't a slight on the others out there but someone has to be at the top and he has that spot.
No one is immune to errors and mistakes. We all make them from time to time and do our best to make them right when brought to our attention. Again, Fred has one of the lowest error rates and is meticulous about corrections but no one is perfect.
Bob Glassman has a point, although I'm sorry to see him giving up. There are some folks out there who are extremely demanding and difficult to deal with. They seem to expect net dealers to sell them Benchmade, Buck and Spydercos at Pakistani prices and provide 5 star service at Motel 6 rates.
When that doesn't pan out, or someone stumbles a bit, they are right there, spring-loaded, ready to jump, screaming and yelling, pointing, cursing and condemning. This has been known to happen even when the mistake turns out to be the customer's. (wrong address given, bad CC number, things like that.) It doesn't seem to matter. It's as if they are expecting to get "ripped off" when they call and, when something happens, well, they just knew it. It's "See, I told ya. The guy's a crook." No wonder Bob is packing it in. (It's also one of the reasons why I haven't been rushing to get my website up.)
It takes little, or no courage to sit behind a keyboard several hundred miles away and berate an individual in public. I'm sure this promotes the lack of courtesy and deficiencies in social skills that often surface in these types of instances. (It's a bit different when the object of one's vitriole is within arm's reach.)
Fortunately, these people comprise a minor portion of the market and most folks are pleasant to deal with.
In my store, I have had no problems like that at all. Maybe that's because most of my business is face-to-face, but I like to think that it's because of the quality of my clientel.
The business dealings that I have had with all of the Forumites, in person, via phone or e-mail, to date, have all been pleasurable experiences with no problems or confrontations whatsoever. I consider myself extremely lucky in that respect.
Finally, publishing private e-mail, especially an edited version, such as yours, is in extremely bad form. You shouldn't have done that. By doing so, along with your other actions, you seem to have placed yourself into the minority category, as described above. In light of that and, given the tenor of your actions when dealing with vendors from afar, and to keep my perspective in line, my disposition level and record intact, if you should someday get the urge to patronize my establishment via internet, e-mail or phone, I would appreciate it greatly if you would make a strong effort to resist that urge.
Thank you.
BTW, welcome to the Forums. I'm sure that, when you re-examine your priorities, gain a bit of maturity, and understand what we are all about here, you will find this place to be entertaining, enjoyable and educational.
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Dennis Wright
Wright Knife & Sporting Goods
La Mesa, CA
1-800-400-1980
wrightknife@ixpres.com
("Have a knife day!")
[This message has been edited by Dennis Wright (edited 01-06-2001).]
[This message has been edited by Dennis Wright (edited 01-06-2001).]