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Interesting question for this thread.
Here's something I observed in my life. Back in college, I came to hate a person--with what I felt was a perfectly good reason. Anyway, I hated this person so vehemently, with such passion, that I didn't seem to have room to hate anything else. It was as if this person, totally without their knowledge, was some kind of anger-sink for me.
For years, I lived a happier life, simply because all of my rage and hate was focused in a single direction. It's only been in recent years, as time has eroded my memories and anger, that I've allowed rage at other things to creep back into my life.
Hate, although certainly not one of the prettier emotions, is necessary. How extremely you feel it, and how you allow it to control you and shape your actions are certainly important, but I don't think I trust people who can't hate. I don't know that I believe that someone without hate can feel love, either.
My $.02.
Here's something I observed in my life. Back in college, I came to hate a person--with what I felt was a perfectly good reason. Anyway, I hated this person so vehemently, with such passion, that I didn't seem to have room to hate anything else. It was as if this person, totally without their knowledge, was some kind of anger-sink for me.
For years, I lived a happier life, simply because all of my rage and hate was focused in a single direction. It's only been in recent years, as time has eroded my memories and anger, that I've allowed rage at other things to creep back into my life.
Hate, although certainly not one of the prettier emotions, is necessary. How extremely you feel it, and how you allow it to control you and shape your actions are certainly important, but I don't think I trust people who can't hate. I don't know that I believe that someone without hate can feel love, either.
My $.02.