RLB0414
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I understand what you mean about not wanting to abandon a pet. My wife volunteers at a feline shelter and one thing that is always in short supply is volunteers to interact with the kitties. When a person is taking care of the physical needs, food, water, clean litter box, there is very little time to simply interact with the kitties. There is an elderly gentleman, like yourself not wanting to adopt and abandon, that comes in a couple times a week for an hour or so and all he does is pet, hold and play with kitties. It is a benefit on each side. He still has interaction with the kitties, so he has "adopted" the entire room of kitties and the kitties get human time they need and want.It's extra hard as while I was sick with liver disease that boy rarely left my bed. I used to FaceTime with him while I was in the hospital after the transplant, I was two hours from home for 8 mths. My dad would hold up the phone, Finn would meow and rub his face on the phone.
Due to my health volatility, I probably won't get another pet. It's also such a long commitment, and having lost my dad 18mths ago at age 65, I don't want to abandon a pet. Rusty is still barely alive,but he doesn't do much anymore. Lays in the same spot all day. We shall see, maybe down the road I'll get another kitty.
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Might be something to ponder if your health permits.