So.
I've taken my time, and gone through every single knife mentioned in this thread, whether or not they were addressed to me.
The knives suggested and mentioned were all awesome, though several certainly didn't meet my stated needs/ criteria.
I actually really enjoyed looking at all the knives.
At this point, I have a shortlist of three knives, with one front-runner.
Other knives were categorised and listed in alphabetical order, with some comments.
SHORTLIST
1) 4.4"/0.11"/4.2 oz Spyderco/ Knifecenter Police 4 Pakkawood: This is the clear front-runner. Long, thin, light, and gorgeous. I'd passed over the Police because I usually prefer locks other than lockbacks. But this is great!
2) 4.0"/0.12"/ 5.3 oz Benchmade Crooked River: It's a little heavy, but it's still a favourite.
3) 4.5"/0.12"/4.1 oz Benchmade 391BK SOCP: I'd never have looked at this without the recommendation — it's far too tactical-looking. But I absolutely love it! Svelte, light, nimble, with that sweet fidget-friendly Axis lock. How could I resist?
ALMOST!
- 4.4"/0.14"/4.4 oz Cheburkov Raven: I like! But out-of-budget.
- 4.0"/0.14"/3.1 oz Cold Steel Broken Skull: Utterly impressive, and it meets my needs nicely, but I just don't love it. I think I'm aesthetically biased against large clip points.
- 4.0"/0.16"/4.2 oz Spyderco Military: Quite nice — and I like liner locks — but the Police Pakkawood beats it cleanly.
- 4.1"/0.13"/3.9 oz Spyderco Native Chief: Nice, but I prefer the Police to the Native Chief.
- 4.1"/0.16"/4.4 oz Zero Tolerance 452CF One of my fave ZT knives… but it just doesn't beat the competition here.
REJECTED: TOO SHORT (less than 4") AND/ OR TOO HEAVY (5 oz or greater)
3.8"/6.5 oz Benchmade 275FE-2 Adamas
3.6"/0.12"/4.2 oz Benchmade 580 Barrage
3.8"/0.13"/3.6 oz Benchmade 710
4"/5.9 oz Benchmade 810 Contego
4"/10.2 oz Cold Steel 4-Max Scout: Pocket machete! More than twice the weight I'm looking for lol
3.5"/5.9 oz Cold Steel AD-10 Impressive knife that is totally not what I'm looking for here
4.0"/5.3 oz Cold Steel Recon 1
5.5"/7.9 oz Cold Steel Voyager XL Drop Point Tri-Ad Lockback
3.7"/0.16"/5.5 oz/ 6.5 oz Freeman 451 Button Lock Flipper Folder: Gorgeous knife, not what I'm looking for
4.0"/5.6 oz Hogue EX-01
4.0"/5.0 oz/7.6 oz RMJ Tactical UCAP Fixed Bowie Knife: Not generally acceptable as EDC in my community.
4.0"/0.13"/5 oz Southern Grind Bad Monkey Nice! I like it! If I were buying ten, this would be one! But not particularly light, and not preferable to the Crooked River.
3.8"/4.3 oz Spyderco Amalgam
3.9"/5.6 oz Spyderco Chinook 4: Upswept Persian blade! Gorgeous, but not for my EDC.
3.8"/0.13"/3.6 oz Spyderco Endura
3.6"/0.12"/4.4 oz Spyderco Gayle Bradley: I love it! But not what I'm looking for here
3.8"/5.2 oz Spyderco Manix XL
3.4"/0.15"/3.8 oz Spyderco Paramilitary 2: PURCHASED/ REFERENCE FOLDER
Thanks for the replies. Anything I buy will have to be shipped to Barbados, and I'll have to pay hefty import duties on it, so I'm considering my choices carefully. But right now, it looks like I'll be saving my pennies to buy at least two blades.