The lockup will change depending on how hard it's opened or how hard you cut.
As long as the liner is still on the tang, it isn't that late. Don't get sucked into the "early lockup or it will be completely worn out by next week" mentality. These knives will settle in to their favorite spot pretty soon after breaking in, then usually stay there. They also have really loose tolerances, so you'll see some play when you use em. Personally, I like my liners to sit right in the middle of the tang.
As for the sticky thing, that's why Emerson picked titanium. Extra grip. Try the pencil or sharpie. Pay no attention to anyone who tells you lube on the lock face will cause failure. If the geometry and tension are where they are supposed to be, the lube will actually make the lock tighter.
If it ends up slipping with graphite or lube on the tang, that's actually a REALLY good thing! It immediately reveals a defective lock so you don't find out the hard way!
These knives are their own beast. Can't be compared to other brands because they simply have their own unique behavior and attitude no other brand displays. Just try to enjoy the knife!