Have you tried the microbevel?
Things can start to get very complex when you sharpen to such a high grit and even more so when you have perfect geometry. Pressure can be a killer and from your rolling description it sounds like too much pressure is being used. Pressure causes the abrasive to dig deeper into the steel causing greater rates of deformation, when this liquid like steel reaches the apex of the two bevels it sticks and extends off as in essence it turns back into a solid.
With the finishing grit used and angles held in such tight tolerance I would expect if properly done edge widths of 0.3 microns or less. That's extremely small and in the league of your disposable razor. You also run into the issue of this very fine edge being poorly supported by the metal behind it due to the straight V shape. Its easily damaged by lateral forces and abrasion of the cutting edge seems to be more dramatic. Being that the edge is so fine you will also notice ANY damage and yes paper will damage a edge like that.
Due to the bevel type you are applying its nearly a must that you apply a microbevel to add proper support too the cutting edge.
The last factor and one I've been playing with for some time is what grit to finish at. If sharpening with diamonds 600-1200 seems to be a nice finishing point with the 1200 grit leading in performance and the 600 being the more aggressive cutting edge. I have had some limited experience with water stone edges and so far I am liking what natural stones do but did get good results from my 8k stone. The natural is a Awase To, 8-10k finishing stone and with this "hard" metal produces a white haze on the bevel with no visible scratch. Surprisingly it cuts the S30V without issue but the best part is the resulting edge. Its very sharp but in a much different way, the edge simply cuts in all directions and displays sharpness greater than what the feel leads you to believe. The edge also seems to be holding up well but I will need to cut up some more things to get a better feel for it.