Thanks for good explanation and understanding!
Totally agree with the preference. I am new to the knife world, but I found myself by default had a mindset that kitchen knives are just a different thing from the knives I am going to put in my collections... (I still don't know how that happened.) My impression is that the couple steel and ceramic knives in the kitchen work just fine. Rarely needed to sharpen, but maybe like you said they are already horribly dull by other standards... I only recently realized the potential damage issues with dishwasher, and I am surprised that our kitchen knives hold up fine (by our standard) with their trips in the dishwasher. Never noticed rusts at least... I don't even know the steel type and couldn't find it in addition to just stainless. Maybe it's not important or cared by ordinary people (like myself couple months ago), so the producer don't even care to put it on.
Speaking of the trade off, I guess the technology hasn't been developed to the point to give knife makers the option of keeping edge performance while dishwasher safe.
Technical innovations have freed people from many repeated tasks, dishwasher is one of them. I don't think kitchen knifes are destined to be excluded. The fact that enough people have done that destroying their knifes seems to suggest a market for dishwasher safe knives (or maybe knife safe dishwashers). I hope in the near future, the new materials can free knife makers from trading one off another.