I agree that there were some very nice comments but I could have done without Koj11's comments as well as the ensuing responses. Death is just a touchy subject with me these days given that in the last 5 weeks I've lost a close friend/former co-worker and had to tell a Mother that her first born had died. It may be my gentle southern upbringing but I dont think a man's death should be fodder for "philosophical muscle flexing". Just let the guy rest in peace. I don't mean to be touchy but like I said it's been a difficult few weeks.jsmatos said:What are you talking about Trane Fan? There's a lot of great tributes to Christopher Reeve in this thread. I enjoyed reading it.
trane fan said:It may be my gentle southern upbringing but I dont think a man's death should be fodder for "philosophical muscle flexing". Just let the guy rest in peace.
Ren the devils trailboss said:and obviously when you get called out for your beliefs the safest thing to do is get angry and defensive. So much for a teachable spirit...your opinion was wrong and people told you that..what did you expect a parade in your honor? a freedom of speech medal? the smart thing to do as a newbie here would have been to just shut up. But now you back pedal and claim that you said he was was generous.. what you actually said was his monetary contributions were generous and helpful to a degree...thats like saying to your wife..well your sort of good looking..Deal wit it dude..you got called out and its no big deal you just :footinmou
TorzJohnson said:koj11, I don't think you're callous or cold hearted, just stupid. According to your logic, the only way he could avoid being a shitheel would be to predict the future and support spinal cord injury programs before he got one himself, or just not do anything at all. I hate to think of all the money he probably wasted donating to other charities for injuries/diseases he didn't actually end up with.
It was a stupid thing to say, and you know it.
koj11 said:Opinions aren't wrong or right. That's why they're opinions. I should have just shut up? Why? Because my opinion is different than yours? And then you actually throw out a "deal WIT it dude"? That's bright...
Guess what? In life you're going to find lots of people with lots of opinions on lots of things that differ from yours. Does that mean their opinions are wrong? Nope. Does that mean they should bow to your superior opinion and just shut up? Nope again. Way to go nazi.