If you're concerned about the exposed part of the knife while in pocket, you can look at swapping the clip with a deep carry one. If you contact Benchmade support, you can ask if they'll send you a clip for the 810 (Contego), or there are some 3rd party titanium clips that run about $8. That should leave only a fraction of an inch exposed while in pocket. The Grip and 943 can both use the same clips.
As for which is more people-friendly, I'd say they're about the same. Some people just get intimidated around modern folders, be it Dragonfly or a ZT 0300. If it's that much of a concern, I'd look to a Traditional, SAK, or pliers-based multi-tool (Leatherman, SwissTool, etc.).
As for which is more people-friendly, I'd say they're about the same. Some people just get intimidated around modern folders, be it Dragonfly or a ZT 0300. If it's that much of a concern, I'd look to a Traditional, SAK, or pliers-based multi-tool (Leatherman, SwissTool, etc.).