Just another minor update. I say minor because not much has really changed. I still carry the Boye folder and Leatherman at work, supplemented by the Crater when I need pliers and a driver at the same time. When I get home from work, all those come out of my pocket, to be replaced by a Victorinox Climber and/or a Leatherman Squirt. And that's pretty much all I've been carrying.
Honestly, the biggest challenge for me has been resisting the urge to pick up another SAK, one with more functions for those "What if" moments, when in reality the tools I already own would likely do just fine. Do I really need an SAK with pliers when I own a pliers based multitool or have the Squirt? Probably not.
Really, it's all been part of a complete change in mindset the past few years. It used to be that self defense use was part of the consideration when I was trying to figure out what to EDC, whereas now it's the furthest thing from my mind. It's not that I don't know that bad things happen, but since I'm not already involved in criminal activities and don't really have any conflicts with those close to me, it's not something I feel I need to worried about on a daily basis. Life's a lot more relaxing when you realize that most people don't even pay attention to your existence, let alone have it out for you.
Great post!
StuntDouble, you really hot a few nails on the head in this. Especially the needs vs wants thing.
Really, if we have a SAK or two, and a multitool, do we really "need" anymore? Like think about our fathers and grandfathers who when through life with a pocket knife and some bailing wire. Or like my folks, survivors of the Great Depression and WW2. How much do we really need? We obsessed knife/multitool fan boys can drive ourselves to drink worrying about the "what if" moments that may never happen outside of an action adventure movie. Most folks going abut their everyday life, commuting to the office cubicle, or retail store, or whatever the work place may be, actually need very little in the way of tools/knives. We're not driving a wagon over the plains to 'town' for supplies, or living in a cabin in the wilderness. But...a small sharp cutting tool is sometimes needed to open a package. Or a screw driver to fix a loose screw situation. Or a bottle opener for that cold brewski.
But mindset does indeed change as we age. When I was a young stud full of vinegar, I was prepared for all kinds of "What If..." scenarios. Just short of practicing yelling "WOLVERINES!" Someplace along the way age seeped some wisdom into me by some process, maybe getting married and having kids made me finally grow up a bit. Its hard enough to think about what new knife I needed when you balance lacrosse practice with soccer league, base ball practice, Girl Scouts, Boy Scouts, a 'Honey do..' list, all with three kids and conflicting schedules.
Somehow, in all those years with all that was gong on, I got by with a well worn Buck stockman and a SAK. I somehow did running repairs on baseball cleats, lacrosse sticks, camping equipment for the scout troop, Interestingly, the only time I needed anything for self defense was a few occasions when I was off by myself. A solo backpacking trip, and a solo drive back from Mission Viejo California when we had a visit with our Daughter Jessica's family. Karen flies and I drive because I hate the airlines with a bottomless passion.
Now as a retired senior citizen my mindset has changed yet again. I now realize how little I truly need in my day to day life. Now, as a certified old fart, self defense has moved up in importance as I realize that we have moved up to the top of page two of the predators menu. I've cut down the size of my SAK/multitool, but added a small handgun to the EDC. That little palm size shooter solved the sticky situation at a deserted rest stop on I10 just east of Ft. Hancock, Texas just after dawn. A SAK or multitool would not have worked.
We have to be on guard against the needs vs wants. It's like a constant temptation for the obsessed knife nut, or like myself, the reformed knife nut. Its like we have to remind ourselves that what we're got, is most likely good enough for most scenarios we will run into in our daily life in 21st century suburbia. Excluding enemy paratroopers, of course.