Hickory n steel
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My mom had a big ass purse that we always called " the duffle bag " which she definitely didn't like, but she deserved to get teased for having such a big ass purse that was too big and too full to find anything.I sometimes wear a fanny pack (a.k.a. hip bag, bum bag, or waist pack) over my shoulder like a sling bag. They're versatile like that.
But um... if a sling bag is made from leather, then it's a purse. Not that there's anything necessarily wrong with a man who carries a purse. Just own it. Say "this is my purse."
Purses should be a manly thing anyway. Men need to carry stuff more than women do, and I feel like women carrying purses fell out of fashion a long time ago.
Btw I actually think women do need purses more because dresses or skirts have no pockets and the ones on women's jeans are useless.
My grandmother hates to carry a purse so she wears mens jeans and carpenters shorts, she does carry a pocket knife and a flashlight though so she may be a bit if a different story.
I pretty much agree with you about the leather though, unless it's a laptop case...etc leather definitely makes it scream purse.
With other materials it depends, a camera case isn't a purse and if it's tactical styled then it just doesn't scream purse to me.
Those mini backpacks and other small packs can definitely look like a purse.
Like you say there's nothing wrong with that, at least not unless you get defensive about it being called a purse and need to believe your little bag isn't one.
If that matters to somebody, then it definitely matters, and they should probably just choose something that is clearly in no way a purse.
Btw I would say I'm definitely one of those people, I'm not going to carry a small pack that somebody could think is a purse because I just don't want to be the guy with a purse.