I feel like I should chime in here as well, just because I've also fallen behind. I have a few orders that are now years past my original estimated delivery date and I feel absolutely terrible about it. The primary problem for me is that I've failed more than once now to build in a proper cushion for all the unforeseen issues that inevitably pop up. I've probably also overestimated my ability to recover from these setbacks. As has already been mentioned, in a one man shop there's no one to cover for you when you're sick or get called away, and there's no one to help you when you hit a dead end.
Moving to Germany was a much bigger deal for me than I'd expected. I basically had to start over from scratch; new tools, new machines, new steels, suppliers, etc. and all in a different language. Seriously try finding a good epoxy in a non-native tongue. Heck it took me months just to find a decent grinder, and several more months to find a guy who would make cubitron grinding belts in the right size for it! I bought my hydraulic press from a couple of Italian engineers at a knife show in Belgium, negotiated the price in French and English, and delivered it back to Germany two days later. I bought my heat treat oven in the Netherlands, my forge came from Slovenia I think, and it sucks... I need to build a new one already.... then I got a weird batch of steel that liked to microfracture when quenched in my fast oil but only revealed its issues at about 400 grit after I'd already forged, ground, heat treated and polished out four large blades...
And then I got dysentery! Gah!
But these are excuses, and no matter how valid they may be, no one likes to hear them!
So I put my nose to the grindstone and work on it, and if I've exceeded my delivery time, I try my best to also exceed expectations. Latest knife out of my shop had a bunch of free upgrades and the customer told me it was worth the wait. "Better than I could have imagined" were his words. That's about the best I can hope for, and I'm grateful for his patience. Truly.
As has also been duly mentioned, communication is key. For so many of us, the most rewarding part of this journey is the relationships we make along the way, and communication is an important part of
any relationship. If you're a customer and you haven't heard from the maker in a while, send an email. If he's missed his estimated delivery date you're due an explanation at the
very least. If your circumstances or tastes have changed, you're also well within your right to cancel the order. No harm, no foul. In the end, all we can really hope for is that both parties come out of the experience happy.
And yeah, no deposits