Answers are snapping right along today, eh? Good to see the activity.
Now that I have been carrying and using knives for about 60 years, I have to admit that I like different grits for different tasks. I am in construction, still put on my tool bags on occasion (and use my knives for work) and then do some light catering on occasion. Then of course, I have different knives that do different every day tasks like sharpening my pencils, cutting my cigars, cleaning my fingernails, etc.
To set the edge bevel I want, I use my Lansky on my smaller knives, and my Worksharp on the bigger knives, or knives that I damage the edge on while in use. Damage is rare, but it happens.
So personally, I have a 1200gr diamond rod that does all the sharpening. I don't strop or polish, or anything else. And I sharpen freehand. That takes care of all my daily knives and seems to get me where I need to go with all my knives. As mentioned above though, pressure is everything, and I use a light touch. 1200gr seems to be grabby/toothy enough for all my steels, and since it is convex (all hand held/freehand edges are!) it doesn't have a fragile edge.
My exception is from a tip I picked up many years ago when butchering a lot of meat. One of my the boys that was breaking down wholesale packaged bulk buy hunks of meat with me was whizzing through the meat a lot faster than I was. I mean, a l faster. (Remember the light touch comment here!) He is a professional caterer that has a lot of time in meat cutting and butchering, and he only sharpens to 240gr! Personally, I thought he was kidding me, and 240 seemed to be the same as sharpening on a street curb. Particularly with my carbon blades, the 240 kicked ass! He then told me that when he serves steak or medallions, he has all his steak knives for the table sharpened to 240gr. They cut the proteins better and made his meats seem more tender.
Does the same thing with his fish filet knives. Tried 240 out in mine, now I do too. I don't make sushi, so I am limited to descaling, fileting, then cutting to size. 240gr (remember the light touch) crushes a whole salmon or a catfish.
I would take the suggestions you get here (some great already) and experiment with your use and the edges best for your steels. It seems to me that different steels hold different angles better, and respond differently to the different grits, too.
The 1200gr is the sweet spot for me except for my butcher knives. Good luck!
Robert