The first rule of trying NOT to sound butthurt, is to NOT give unsolicited advice tainted with one's own hurt feelings.
The man and his Lady both have to eat and pay their bills. I have bought from him twice and both times, I paid on Friday and had my items at my door once on the following Monday and the second time on the following Wednesday. Now if I stepped on some toes and some feelings got hurt in the process, I don't feel the urge to apologize for anything. It is the same darn way that popular items sell on the Exchanges and I don't see anyone complaining about that but when it comes to some people making their livelihood in this industry, some folks get their bloody knickers in a twist just because someone is successful at it and doesn't have to beg / borrow just to do what a man has to do to take care of his own by creating excellent tools for a very hungry market!