A lot of the forumites gave you some very frank but right on advice. You can change YOU if you are so motivated. From your past post, you sound like a very nice person, and that is definitely a plus!!! Look critically, yet positively at your faults, and do your best to daily improve on yourself, without getting too fanatical about the changes; the journey, should you wish to take it, will be a fantastic learning experience, and will bring you closer to your goal.
It's easy to get back in shape... Join a gym, eat well, and enjoy the metamorphosis; just don't get too hung up on the end result. If you'd like some personalized input. I'd be more than happy to help you out. I'm sure you have a heck of a lot more positive things going on with the body/mind unit known as philthygeezer
, than negative ones. Are you willing to experiment, and even make some empowering changes? I thought so; you've already won 50% of the battle, and will soon be finding success in your amorous endeavors...
P.S. You'll also soon be pleasantly discovering that many females definitely appreciate "sex fiends"; get your body and mind prepared for the notoriety!
Best wishes:
Dan