Cray, a few years back when I sold on the bay, “I would State” , International shipping to be by USPS only. the buyer could go on the USPS website and get a cost before buying/bidding. Then I would say, No Sales to Russia etc where I had problems in the past. I still won’t ship to Russia unless I have a track record with that individual ...
Back around '06...(?) I sold a $$$ OTF MT to a guy on the forums. Turned out after the sale, he was in Russia.
I filled out the papers as well as I could, having never shipped internationally before.
I agreed to "camp tool" for the paperwork, but when I got home and emailed him the shipping receipt pic, he freaked out. Re: the way I had shipped it guaranteed it would be stolen before he ever saw it.
I was already taking a decent hit on shipping internationally, but he'd expected me to pay around $100 MORE for a different service.
It was already out of my hands, and I was 99% sure, 1 hour after shipping, and after paying $60-ish more than I'd expected (for a sale in the U.S.) out of pocket on my end, and I was sure my funds would be taken or frozen at anytime. He was worked up from the minute he got the pic of the shipping form.
5 days in, I got an email from him with all caps in the subject line. Without looking I just assumed he was ready to file a claim with PayPal.
In fact, he was calling me a "shipping wizard", as he received his package, still fully bombproofed, and in under 1/2 the time expected.
He was super happy, & I was just glad I didn't have to give him a refund.
I learned a valuable lesson on that sale.
I've lost a couple of sales/trades over time now, after deciding to agree to ONLY ship to the lower 48.
I had to pay for shipping to Alaska once, stupidly assuming a $5 flat rate box was all I'd need. (They were cheaper days) but $5 didn't get it to get to Alaska even then..
Too much headache! Even tho it worked out, it was 5 days of headaches for me. Just not worth it to me, personally.
My crazy Russian shipping story!!